How to say no to a gay friend

Everyone has gay friends, and if they are close, they will laugh and call each other's gay friends. Most people are still straight, gay is still a minority, but if one day, your gay friends like you confess, what should you do?

How to be confessed by a friend of the same sex

If you don't like it or even get bored, you can make it clear to the other party. After all, you can't let others think that the person he likes is also liking him, so the misunderstanding will be deeper and deeper, which is troubling to yourself and bad for others.

And like a person has nothing to do with gender, he likes is not your gender, may be your personality, your temper, or your way of life. You may not like it, but don't look at others with different eyes, don't say something bad to hurt each other, can politely refuse, make it clear.

The word "like" can mean many things, not just between a man and a woman, between love, between friends, maybe to be clear, you two might become best friends.

How do you say no to gay confessions

If you are certain that your sexual orientation is the opposite sex and feel that you cannot accept it, then you can explain it to him and politely decline it without making a big deal about it.

If it is a friend, then you should explain that you can be friends with him, but not any other relationship, you must be clear about this yourself. If you are not friends, you should make it clear so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstanding and trouble.

In addition, it is necessary to reflect on whether their own language, behavior and other time to bring misunderstanding to the other party.

How to get along with friends to grasp the scale

① usually less to disturb. Everyone has their own career, their own thing; No trouble, less trouble is the support of friends, but also the understanding of friends.

② Keep in touch with each other moderately. "Not interrupting" is not a long period of no contact, no contact and no word, so that people feel as if they don't have such a friend. We can contact each other once in a while, make a call on wechat, or go out to dinner together. To keep the friendship alive.

③ Friends have difficulties, to take the initiative to give care and help, and in the ability to allow the scope, give material support, spiritual comfort, help friends through difficulties, solve difficulties, this is the real friend! Otherwise, they're fair-weather friends.

④ Don't ask too much about each other's privacy. Everyone has their own little secrets, to keep a proper distance, do not interfere too much in each other's life, dig each other's secrets, pay attention to the appropriate.